Leah Aguirre, LCSW 

Author | Relationship & Emotional Abuse Expert | Advocate for Healthy Relationships & Self-Trust

Empowering people to recognize unhealthy relationship patterns and reclaim relationships that feel safe, supportive, and empowering. 

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If you’ve ever felt controlled, confused, anxious, or ashamed in a relationship—but couldn’t quite name why—this book is for you.

Is This Really Love? helps you recognize the subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs of coercive control and emotional abuse. Drawing from EMDR, ACT, and self-compassion tools, this empowering guide gives you the clarity and courage to break free, rebuild your self-worth, and reclaim your autonomy—step by step.

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